I've got the best answer for you and you will thank me for years for this................
WITCH HAZEL
Buy a bottle and apply to your hole gently.
Tell me how it works and feel free to share your thanks in the main forum so I see it.
There is some WITCH HAZEL that also has ALOE in it and that really works well. However, WH alone will do the trick.
Also, make sure you use white toilet tissue and don't force your craps.
GL
FH